When People Show You Who They Are…

It’s crazy how life works.

As this present time, I’m currently not on speaking terms with 3 people, who at one time were a huge part of my life. How they all came to slowly retreat from my life was no big fanfare.
We didn’t have a big argument, fight or anything like that. It was slow and gradual. Before you know it, you look up & it has been 2 months since you’ve spoken with people. There’s a quote that say “People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.”

Previously in the past, when I would have issues with a person, it would kind of bother me. I’m not a fair-weathered friend so when I have an issue with a person, I’m not afraid to call and sort it out. But this time, I am ok. I don’t feel like I need to do anything in any of these situations. If people want to walk out of your life, let them go. And if you feel like you need to remove people from your space, go right ahead. Your happiness and sanity are way more important than having toxic people in your life.

I could even foresee this happening from my previous interactions and past experiences with them. But sometimes you have to let the universe (or God) take care of things. I have also noticed that when I finally decided to go full speed on my goal, things that didn’t matter, people and other bullshit started dropping from my life, making a way for me to focus squarely on what I want to do. I had read this would happen in all of my self-help books and literature but to see it happening lets me know that I am on the right path. So I’m moving forward, full steam ahead.

People have shown me who they are and I believe them. Now it’s time for me to focus on who I am or rather the new me I am becoming.

On a clearer path,


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