When Your BFF Turns Into Your Secret Enemy

We all have that friend that for what ever reason, we don’t speak to anymore.

It’s definitely an issue that most women will encounter in their life. People grow up, drift apart, get into arguments and there are some people that you just don’t need to be friends with.

My Crew. I heart them!

I recently got back in touch with an old friend whom I hadn’t spoken with in years. We didn’t have an issue with each other or anything and she was more like a big sister than anything. It was SO GOOD to talk to her. We actually talked about the fact that she hadn’t spoken with her former best friend in four years. I noticed that the two weren’t Facebook friends but I didn’t think too much about it until it was confirmed.

I was so sad to hear that news but I wasn’t totally shocked. Just like people fall in and out of love many times, people fall in and out of friendships. Like a break-up, its sad and takes a while to get through. But unlike some break-ups, there are some friendship woes that can never be healed. Example- A girl who finds out her best friend slept with her man probably will have a hard time trusting any friend and boyfriend after that.

I experienced a situation like that with someone I was friends with for over 8 years. I LOVE her kids but we will never be friends again. Sometimes you just need to just let the past stay in the past & move on.

But for those friendships that break up over small things like a comment or opinion about something, those can be salvaged. Don’t get mad at your friend because she’s telling you that a decision that you are about to make is dumb. Take it for what it is. It’s their opinion. It could be right, it could be wrong but it is what it is at the end of the day.

What’s crazy is that this really happens to everyone. It’s a part of life. But it doesn’t have to be like that.

Facebook that friend that you haven’t spoken with in years.

It may surprise you to learn that they’ve been thinking about you too.


One thought on “When Your BFF Turns Into Your Secret Enemy

  1. I guess some things just aren't meant to be.Sad but true 😦

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