One of my very good friends recently asked why I didn’t talk more about relationships and being single. My response was: Girl I don’t really want to talk about that. And that’s actually what I mean. How many times do u want to really want to read about how hard or fun it is to be a single girl in the city?
It seems like everywhere you turn and look, people are either shacking up, having kids and then shacking up and even a few are getting married.
But that’s not me or the life that I lead. Like right now for example, it 12:59 a.m. and I’m up blogging, drinking wine and watching Sex and The City. Yes, my goal in life is to be the black Carrie Bradshaw in Chicago.
Even I don’t read the articles anymore about how hard it is for black women to find a man. That sounds so depressing! So here’s the rundown on me. By all definitions: I am Single. Yes. My name is Veronica and I am Single. Please don’t hit me with the pity face. I am only 25!
But I feel very fulfilled and loved. I do have someone that I love (long distance love does count) and guys that keep me well, let’s just say entertained.
What I do hate those people who try to act like there is something wrong with your life because you’re single & they’re with child (children) and a jealous boyfriend. Puh-Lease!
No offense to anyone I know or anyone of my friends, but I can’t imagine my life being any different than it is now. Now should I get caught slipping or have a case of life happens, that’s fine. But for now, I’m good.
If anything, I think people are too obsessed with settling down & doing things too fast. What happened to enjoying your 20’s. In your 20’s, you’re supposed to make mistakes, have fun & live care free. Your 30’s is a time for trying to piece your life together. What happened to that?
Nowadays people want to marry they baby daddy at 19 & shit. What? That sounds dumb.
My thoughts: Live your life to the fullest. Meet as many people as you can, have the most amazing safe sex that you can and have fun!
Living La Vida Single Life,